5 Ways to Invite Christ Into Your Marriage to Create Unity, Healing, and Joy
Marriage is one of the most beautiful reflections of our Heavenly Parent’s covenant love for Their people. Yet, it can also be one of the most vulnerable places in our lives—where wounds run deep, communication can falter, and disconnection quietly grows. No matter how long you’ve been married or what season you're walking through, one truth remains constant: when Christ is at the center, your marriage becomes a vessel of unity, healing, and joy.
But how do we truly invite Christ into our marriage, not just as an idea, but as an active presence? Here are five intentional ways to welcome Him into the heart of your relationship.
Pray Together Daily
"For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them." — Matthew 18:20
Prayer is the heartbeat of a Christ-centered marriage. Yet for many couples, it’s also one of the most neglected spiritual disciplines. We pray for each other, but praying with each other can feel awkward, exposing, or simply forgotten in the rush of daily life. But there is profound power in shared prayer.
Why it matters:
When spouses pray together, they open a sacred space of vulnerability and spiritual intimacy. You’re not just bringing your requests to God—you’re learning to see into each other’s hearts. Praying together aligns your focus and softens your spirit toward one another. It becomes harder to stay resentful or distant when you're consistently lifting each other up in God's presence.
How to start:
Begin with a simple one-minute prayer before bed or in the morning.
Pray out loud for each other’s needs, no matter how small.
Try keeping a shared prayer journal.
Don’t worry about sounding “spiritual.” Be real.
Even if this feels awkward at times, keep practicing until this just becomes a normal part of your day.
Let Scripture Guide Your Relationship
"Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light to my path." — Psalm 119:105
Scripture offers timeless truth. When God’s Word becomes your compass, you begin to measure success not by fleeting emotions, but by faithfulness, sacrifice, and grace.
Why it matters:
The scriptures aren’t just a rulebook—it’s a relational guide full of God’s wisdom for loving well. It teaches us how to forgive (Ephesians 4:32), how to be patient and kind (1 Corinthians 13), how to submit to one another out of reverence for Christ (Ephesians 5:21), and how to endure with hope (Romans 12:12).
How to apply it together:
Choose a book of scripture to read together, even just one verse per day.
Reflect together on how that verse applies to your relationship.
Memorize key verses that remind you how to love like Jesus.
Display scriptures in your home as a visual anchor for your marriage.
When God’s Word saturates your hearts, it naturally begins to shape your actions, soften your responses, and deepen your commitment.
Pursue Forgiveness and Grace Daily
"Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." — Ephesians 4:32
Every marriage will encounter conflict, misunderstanding, and hurt. The question isn’t if you will be wounded, but how you’ll respond when you are. A Christ-centered marriage doesn't avoid conflict—it transforms it through the power of forgiveness.
Why it matters:
Unforgiveness builds walls. Even small offenses, left unspoken, can harden the heart. But when we remember how deeply Christ has forgiven us, we are compelled to extend that same grace to our spouse. Forgiveness is not about pretending nothing happened—it’s about choosing healing over bitterness.
What it looks like in practice:
Be quick to apologize, even when it feels hard.
Avoid scorekeeping. Love keeps no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13:5).
Ask God to heal the root issues, not just surface behaviors.
Speak words of blessing over your spouse—even when emotions are raw.
Grace isn’t natural—it’s supernatural. But when you invite Jesus into the hard places, He brings restoration you couldn’t create on your own.